one show i did recommend to you guys to watch is 一切完美 (perfect cut) on channel u at 10pm on weekdays. i just so happened to catch the show on air last night and realised that it not only talks about cosmetic surgery but also about other life issues and also the different motivations that make people want to go under the knife. last night's episode was about a girl Anne who killed herself not long after her breast enhancement surgery. her good friend Shishi told Anne's mother that Anne killed herself after a failed breast enhancement job. however, the real cause of her death was because the only 2 people Anne really trusted and believed in - her good friend Shishi and boyfriend Kent betrayed her. in her blog she talked about her lonely life whereby her mother gave her lots and lots of money but never really showed her the care, concern and love she really wished for. her mother was busy all the time and the last words her mother said to her before she threw herself off a building was 'sorry girl, i'm in a meeting now'. this led me to think about how fortunate i've been where my parents, auties and friends really care about me. even though we're not well off and sometimes i do quarrel with my parents over certain issues but still i am receiving the care, concern and love that Anne has been hoping for but never received. i guess that's what they really call 身在福中不知福. i've also realised one thing - all along i've always hoped to be rich but i've come to realise this being rich cannot buy me the happiness, love and all the genuine care and concern i am getting in life right now.